How to Be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM by Morpheous

Author:Morpheous [Morpheous]
Language: eng
Format: epub, azw3, pdf
ISBN: 9781937866242
Publisher: Perseus Books Group
Published: 2012-10-01T06:00:00+00:00

The more dramatic your dress up, the hotter the scene!

Playing with a limber partner will take you places you never dreamed of.

Leather Butt: A common term that describes a part of someone’s body that has had prolonged stimulation, making that part less sensitive over time.

All play has to be within your personal limits. There is no point in suffering if you are getting nothing out of it; pain shouldn’t exceed the receiver’s hard limits, and this goes for Tops and bottoms, Doms and subs. Remember, this book is about getting into kinky sex for pleasure and gratification. We are talking about consensual “pain and pleasure”—although I have yet to meet a submissive or bottom who complains that there is too much pleasure and it is beyond his limits! There are bad types of pain such as the feeling of “pins and needles” in the hands and feet and this needs to be acknowledged as the circulatory system being restricted and the nerves letting you know that there is something wrong that requires immediate attention. If you feel a stabbing or numbness this too could be an indication of nerve pain or compression, and it is the body’s way of telling you that there is something seriously not right. Nerve pain is not something to blow off casually. Beware of a play partner that encourages you to “suck it up” and “work through the pain” if it is this kind of pain! The types of pain we would like to deliver and have accepted are mostly musculoskeletal “pain,” the delicious achy sensations that are desirable in BDSM. For instance, when I have a submissive tied up in a delicious and restrictive position and her muscles are groaning and achy from being bound, she relishes that enduring type of sensation. Now, if her hands or feet start to go numb and “fall asleep” that is a bad type of pain and has to be immediately addressed.

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